3 Ways To Conquer Self-Doubt & Start Feeling Flawless

I am feeling triggered Today and I want to share with you how I over come self doubt when it shows it's ugly head:

I used to be very self conscious years ago. I was afraid of criticism and afraid of approval. After years of self work and shifting my mindset around this, I can tell you that those days are gone. It's not that we never experience self doubt, it's that we know how to bounce back quicker, instead of spending days, weeks, months or years in self doubt, you get over it even in the span of hours.

Whenever you're entering new territory, your mind will try to keep you safe, telling you at times a bunch of lies that only make you feel bad in the effort to keep you stuck. You have to know that.

As women we have to connect with our bodies, emotions and heart to really know what's the truth to really succeed in life.

So here is what I do:

1. I recognise there is an amazing opportunity in self doubt. It is AMAZING to really clear the fear away. ( I do EFT Tapping or any other energy releasing technique that is the best suited for the situation). This helps me release the negative energy in my field and it helps me clear the path to higher self love, higher love & abundance manifested in my life in general.

The lesson is: if it is still there, it is blocking new opportunities from coming to your life.

2. I fill myself with love: It is a excellent opportunity to start declaring some new affirmations in my life that DO support me. I look at myself in the mirror and I start telling myself how amazing I am. You get what you focus on, remember this. If you stay focused in judging or doubting yourself, it will be reflected with the people and situations around you.

Here is how I am filling myself up with love as I write this:

3. It's an opportunity to celebrate diversity. When we are experiencing self doubt, a funny trick the ego tries is to make us feel better or worse than other people. None of these work. 

Here is the catch, you have to be madly and truly in love with yourself. Love your strengths and "weaknesses". You are unique, there is no one else like you. So notice the pattern, do you celebrate people? If there is anything you truly desire to improve , let love be your guide to do so. Not fear.  You'll notice the difference if you feel expanded (love) or if you feel contracted (Fear).  

A really neat exercise I do is that if I see something I love from somebody else , I also claim it for myself too: "She's gorgeous. So Am I.", "She has such a unique style and I do too", "She has achieved so much, and so have I".

We are all expressions of love in different and beautiful ways.

Treat everyone as a loving equal, it really creates a beautiful ripple effect in your life.

Everyone wins.

PS. If you want to know more about how to find your voice, feel confident in your own skin and become the woman you're capable of becoming, check out my "Find Your Voice In The World" intensive details here.

Get Audio Training To Erase Self Doubt, Increase Your Love Capacity & Feel Confident In Your Own Skin. 

Download this training if you are ready to break the cycle of self doubt, find yourself and create new opportunities that align you with more love and abundance!. 

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The Real Reason Why I Started Coaching In The First Place

Phew, I am finally feeling free to share this. The main reason why I hired my first coach was because I was looking for love outside of me. I wanted to find my soulmate in hopes he would fill all of my wounds, so to speak.

I thought to myself, this will be easy...a few affirmations here and there and tara! we would meet, fall in love and everything would be easy. It turns out that process looked completely different than what I had expected. I had to look within, I had to fall madly in love with myself, really know how valuable and amazing I am as a woman.

I cleared a lot of my wounds and found something much greater than what a relationship could give to me, I found myself. There are other aspects of my life that I was completely disconnected from: my passion, what made me happy and staying committed to bring them to life no matter what.

Before, my mind was in chaos when things weren't working out in my love life. I would cancel everything out and just live through the motions like a zombie, lifeless.

Now, I'm still dating but I am completely different from who I was before, I have a whole new mindset and support system that is teaching me what REAL love is (Plus, I have the best Love Coach ever- Nicole Moore) I know that when I marry it will be for a whole different set of reasons than what I first started this journey. 

This desire to find love brought me so much JOY, I no longer feel like a zombie and I am doing what I love: helping other women like me find themselves and reach their desires, no matter what. Makes me so glad I got out of that FUNK. My chaos and my desire to overcome it has helped so many women find themselves too and it is the best feeling in the whole world.

Love is SO powerful, it isn't just a relationship with another person. First and foremost, it is your relationship with yourself, with the universe/God and your relationship with your partner and loved ones. It is the whole reason why we are here.

I am really happy because in the pursuit of finding myself, I've awakened a sense of confidence and peace so profound because I am doing what I love, I make time for my family and friends. I have priorities, I don't lose myself in my love life anymore and more than anything, I know how to balance out my life and reach for my desires, no matter what. I am committed to me, to my development and mastering life with a smile on my face. Once you find yourself and have the courage to follow your true passions, everything lines up. It's magical.

If you want to know how I did and how you can have a powerful breakthrough like this one.

I invite you to join me Thursday on a live training to guide you on how to leave your comfort zone and take the big leap to finding yourself here: www.nicoleelissa.com/courage


Ready To Find Yourself & Create A Life You're Passionate About? Join Me On An Exclusive Free Training This Thursday: 

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Miracle VLOG: Nutrition For A Higher Intuition!

Hi All,

I hope everyone had a FABULOUS January, mine was amazing: Quit my day job, went to an amazing retreat, concert, launched my Six Month Transformation Program, studied modules of the programs I’ve invested in, had fantastic Private Coaching One Day Intensives, did a juicing detox and planned lectures on Finding Peace and Being Fearless for the rest of the year!

In today’s VLOG, I share with you the reason why I decided to do the juicing detox, which I finished this week:) and I absolutely LOVED it.

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What you eat is in direct relation to having a peak state of mind. As a coach, this is crucial to provide the right insights and teachings to my clients and it’s also essential for anyone who desires to develop a higher intuition and manifest their desires at a higher speed. Have I mentioned how it just simply skyrockets your happiness levels ? because it does.

There are chemicals in the food we normally eat outside that lower our capability to manifest or vibrate at a higher frequency. They keep our mind and body in a foggy state. I am sure you have noticed that when you eat certain types of food, you suddenly feel lazy or drained, this is not just affecting your body but your train of thought process too.

If you are anything like me, you desire and know the importance of feeling good. Providing the right support for both, mind and body, allows YOU to:

  • Analyse situations with a clear perspective

  • Become the happiest person you know

  • Live in a state of EXPANSION and POSSIBILITIES

  • Look for the gold: find creative ways to solve a situation, instead of staying in a rut

  • Feel alive: Stay and enjoy the present moment

  • Live with radical faith: Be at ease

  • And many more!

“To Live Your Best Life And Leave Negative Patterns Behind, A System Must Be Put In Place To Cleanse Mind AND Body From Negativity” – Nicole Elissa

What can you start doing today to regain your power and live your best life? If you desire to successfully rewire your subconscious and create the necessary mindset shifts to heal all those limiting beliefs that have been ruling over you and truly start living a life you absolutely love. I have created my Six Month Coaching Program with YOU in mind!  
Why ? Because we are all equal and you don't deserve to stay trapped believing the lies you perceived were real when you were growing up and that are now effectively making you believe that you are meant to live a normal, uninspired life. 
The truth is: YOU have POWER! Success is a science that involves the right support, techniques and actions based on contrast from those limiting beliefs. That is what have carefully crafted for you in this program.  Regain your power, release all trace of victim - consciousness ruling over your life and projects. 
By watching the video you realised that I have a great BONUS for you with my Six Month Transformation Coaching Program , if you are a true go getter and realise that all change occurs in NOW.  

To release your negative beliefs from the past, if you feel aligned to develop core confidence to live your best life today, I am offering TWO additional EFT sessions to burst through those blocks, send out a new message to your subconscious that is in alignment with your new empowered self and skyrocket your success in 2015.  That makes it a total of Six EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) sessions with me in the program.  A never seen offer from me before as a regular EFT session with me has the value of 250 USD. 
This offer is valid until this Friday, February 6, 2015. Don't miss out as this is especially designed to give you extra support to truly eliminate your BIGGEST fears.  Napoleon Hill On his best seller, Think and Grow Rich, stated that leaders make quick decisions. If this is you, sign up for the program today. 
If you have any additional questions about the program and desire to talk about your challenges and how we can work together, sign up for a Clarity Session today!

​Loads of LOVE,


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Miracle VLOG: How to Transform Your Life Through The Eyes of Love


I am delighted to write this blog today, I am desiring a lot of fire and a stream of inspiring ideas to every one who is decided to transform their life this year! Six days have passed and so MUCH has happened, I can’t wait to share all of it with you. So many exciting news!

As a teaser to my workshop launching on January 24 that I am VERY excited to share with everyone,  I  want to share a VLOG on How To Transform Your Life Through the Eyes Of Love.  In the video I share some key ideas on how to start this process and maintain the desired change.

If you are feeling drained, lost, consumed by patterns that are destructive and  can’t seem to transform it, this video is for YOU!

I am recording several videos to provide insight on how to transform your life and become confident in your own skin to go for what you want, SUBSCRIBE HERE and join me in this wonderful LOVERevolution. 🙂

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As always, I hope you find this video useful and comment below any insights or ways in which you will start applying this today.

Loads of LOVE!

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Special for the holidays!

Special for the Holidays!

Holiday season has inspired me to do something really SPECIAL for those who are feeling lost and want to BOOST their confidence and want to kickstart 2015 with the right focus and energy.

Are you feeling drained or lost? Want to start 2015 with more CONFIDENCE and attract Freedom, Love & Abundance?

I am offering a LIMITED amount of

Confidence Boosting Coaching 60 minutes sessions ($167 Value)…

For only $53.20!

I will only be opening space for 5 People.

These will be private one-on-one 60-minute calls (Value $167). This is only valid until December 31, 2014.

In this private session, you will receive the following:
– Clarity on your desired goal
– Clarity on your desired feeling on how to maintain that frequency
– Clarity on the blocks that are keeping you drained and with a lack in confidence and HOW to shift the energy
– Next clear step to hone your confidence and move towards your most DESIRED goal!

To apply and receive the next steps, please send an e-mail to Monalizze at:

Subject: Holiday Special

Gift yourself something super special this year and allow yourself to feel refreshed, BE confident and totally transform your 2015 by living out your desires!

Loads of love,


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